SEPARATION RELATED ANXIETY
How do I know if my pet's problem is due to separation anxiety?
Separation anxiety is a condition which afflicts dogs that are overly attached
or dependent on family members. They become extremely anxious and show distress
behaviours like vocalization, destruction, house-soiling or inactivity when
separated from the owners. Most dogs with separation anxiety try to remain close
to their owners and become increasingly anxious the greater the separation.
They may follow the owners from room to room and begin to display signs of anxiety
as soon as the owners prepare to leave. Some of these dogs crave a great deal
of physical contact and attention from their owners and can be demanding. During
departures or separations they may begin to salivate or pant profusely, vocalize,
eliminate, refuse to eat, become destructive or become quiet and withdrawn.
Most often these behaviours occur within about 20 minutes of the owner's departure.
While typically the behavior occurs each and every time the owner leaves, it
can happen only on selected departures, such as workday departures, or when
the owner leaves again after coming home from work.
Are there other reasons why my dog may engage in these behaviours?
Yes there are numerous other reasons and it essential to be sure of the diagnosis.
Many dogs, especially puppies enjoy chewing and engage in the behavior when
they have nothing better to keep them occupied. House soiling may be due to
medical problems, leaving the dog alone for longer than it can control its bladder,
or inadequate house-training. Vocalization may be due to territorial intrusion
by strangers or other animals and can be a rewarded behavior if the dog receives
any form of attention when it vocalizes or is rewarded by the stimulus moving
away. Some dogs will attempt to escape or become extremely anxious when confined,
so that destructiveness or house-soiling when a dog is locked up in a cage or
small room, may be due to confinement or barrier anxiety and associated attempts
at escape. In addition, noise phobias such as in response to a thunderstorm
that passes through during the owner's absence, or other phobic responses may
lead to marked destructiveness, house soiling, salivation and vocalization
What can I do immediately to prevent damage?
This is an extremely difficult question. The aim of treatment is to reduce
your pet's level of anxiety by training it to feel comfortable in your absence.
This can be a long and intensive process. Yet, most owners will need to deal
with the damage or vocalization immediately. During initial retraining it may
be best to hire a dog sitter, take the dog to work, find a friend to care for
the dog for the day, board the dog for the day, or arrange to take some time
off from work to retrain the dog. Cage training or dog-proofing techniques may
work especially for those dogs that already have an area where they are used
to being confined. Cages should be used with caution however with dogs that
have separation anxiety and/or also have barrier frustrations because they can
severely injure themselves attempting to get out of a cage. It is important
to choose a room or area that does not further increase the dog's anxiety. The
dog's bedroom or feeding area may therefore be most practical.
If departures are short, the destructive dog may be trained to wear a plastic
or wire meshed basket muzzle so that it can continue to roam around the home
unrestricted but this approach is not suitable for longer periods of separation.
For vocalization, anti-bark devices are of limited value as they are likely
to make the dog more anxious and the motivation to vocalize may be too strong
for the products to have any effect. Tranquilizers and anti-anxiety drugs may
be useful for short-term use, until you have taken effective control of the
problem and antidepressant drugs can play a role in the treatment process.
Lastly, punishment of destruction or house-soiling when you return is contraindicated.
The destruction or house soiling is a result of the pet's anxiety, not "spite"
or being "mad" that you left. Punishment will only serve to make the pet more
anxious about your return.
How can the dog be retrained so that it is less anxious during departures?
Since the underlying problem is anxiety, try to reduce all forms of anxiety,
prior to departure, at the time of departure, and at the time of homecoming.
In addition, the pet must learn to accept progressively longer periods without
attention while you are at home and also periods of separation from you even
though you are still in the house.
What should be done prior to departures?
Before any lengthy departure, provide a vigorous session of play and exercise.
This not only helps to expend some of the dog's energy and tire it out, but
also provides a period of attention. A brief training session can also be a
productive way to further interact and "work" with your dog. For the final 15-30
minutes prior to departure, the dog should be ignored. It would be best if your
dog was trained to go to its rest and relaxation area with a radio, TV, or video
playing, as the owner could then prepare for departure while the pet is out
of sight and earshot of the owner. In the short term, the key is to avoid as
many of the departure signals as possible, so that the dog's anxiety is not
heightened, even before the owner leaves. Brushing teeth, changing into work
clothes, or collecting keys, purse, briefcase or schoolbooks, are all routines
that might be able to be performed out of sight of the dog. Owners might also
consider changing clothes at work, preparing and packing a lunch the night before,
or might even consider leaving their car at a neighbors so the dog wouldn't
hear the car pulling out of the driveway. Over the long term, a desensitization
program will be needed to decrease the pet's reaction to these various triggers.
A few minutes prior to departure the dog should be given some fresh toys and
objects to keep it occupied (see below) so that the owner can leave while the
dog is distracted. Saying good-bye, will only serve to bring attention to the
What can be done to reduce anxiety at the time of departure?
As you depart, the dog should be kept busy and occupied, and preferably out
of sight, so that there is little or no anxiety. Giving favored treats and food
for departure times (and taking them away when you are at home) can help keep
the dog distracted and perhaps "enjoying itself" while you leave. Dogs that
are highly aroused and stimulated by food may become so intensively occupied
in a peanut butter coated dog toy, a fresh piece of rawhide, a dog toy stuffed
with liver and dog food, or some frozen dog treats, that they may not even notice
you leave. Be certain that the distraction devices last as long as possible
so that the dog continues to occupy its time until you are "long gone". Frozen
treats placed in the dog's food bowl, toys that are tightly stuffed with goodies,
toys that are designed to require manipulation and work to obtain the food reward,
toys that can maintain lengthy chewing, and timed feeders that open throughout
the day can all be useful for this purpose. Determine what motivates your dog
most. For example, if a particular toy is highly successful provide two or three
of the same type rather than toys that do not maintain your dog's interest.
It may also be helpful to provide some or all of the dog's food during departures
perhaps with a few special surprises in the bottom of the bowl. On rare occasions
a second pet can help to keep the dog occupied and distracted during departures
but it is generally better to deal with the separation problem in one dog before
going out to get another. Naturally, food will not be effective for dogs that
will not eat when the owner is preparing to leave.
What should I do when I come home?
At homecomings, ignore your dog until it calms and settles down (this may
take 10-15 minutes). Exuberant greetings or any type of punishment for misbehavior
will only serve to heighten the dog's anxiety surrounding homecomings.
My dog starts to get anxious even before I leave. What can I do?
There are a number of activities that we do consistently prior to each departure.
The dog soon learns to identify and associate these cues or signals with imminent
departure. On the other hand, some dogs learn that certain other signals mean
that the owners are staying home or nearby and therefore the dog stays relaxed.
If we can prevent the dog from observing any of these pre-departure cues (avoiding
cues), or if we train the dog that these cues are no longer predictive of departure,
then the anxiety before we leave is greatly reduced.
How can cues be avoided?
Consider wearing casual clothes when you leave and change at work. Leave your
jacket, purse, briefcase or other work items in the car. Confine (and train)
the dog to stay in a room where it cannot see or hear you preparing to leave.
What about the pre-departure signals that I cannot avoid?
Even with the best of efforts some dogs will still pick up on "cues" that
the owner is about to depart. Train your pet to associate these cues with enjoyable,
relaxing situations (rather than the anxiety of impending departure). By exposing
the dog to these cues while you remain at home and when the dog is relaxed or
otherwise occupied, they are no longer predictive of departure. This entails
some retraining while you are home. You get the items (keys, shoes, briefcase,
jacket etc.) that normally signal your departure, and walk to the door. However,
you do not leave, just put everything away. The dog will be watching
and possibly get up, but once you put every thing away, the dog should lie down.
Then, once the dog is calm, this is repeated. Eventually, the dog will not attend
to these cues because they are no longer predictive of you leaving and will
not react, get up or look anxious as you go about your pre-departure tasks.
Then, the dog will be less anxious when you do leave. This often allows the
next step in retraining, planned departures.
What can be done to retrain the dog to reduce its dependence and following?
The most important aspect of retraining is to teach the dog to be independent
and relaxed in your presence. Only when you have taught the dog to stay in place
in its bed or relaxation area, rather than constantly following you around,
will it be possible to train the dog to accept your departures.
First and foremost the dog must learn that attention-getting behaviours do
not pay off. Any attempts to gain attention must be ignored. On the other hand,
lying quietly away from you should be rewarded. Teach your dog that it is the
quiet behavior that will receive attention, and not following you around, or
demanding attention. Teach your dog to relax in its quiet area and to accept
lengthy periods without attention when you are home. Then he or she is used
to this routine when you depart. For some dogs this may mean a formal program
of "down"/"stays" (see below).
How can I teach my dog to accept my departures?
Formal retraining should be directed at teaching your dog to remain on its
mat, in its bed, or in its cage or den area, for progressively longer periods
of time (30 minutes or more). Start by using a favored treat as a prompt. Hold
it in front of your dog, have him or her sit or lie down on command and give
the food, praise and petting. At the next few commands, hold your hand out,
but hide the food. Progress from a 1-second sit, to 2 seconds then 3 seconds,
etc., until the dog will sit for at least 60 seconds.
Next practice the "stay" command, holding up the hand prompt saying "sit",
then "stay" and walk 2 or 3 steps away. Have the dog stay for 60 seconds and
then walk back and give the reward with the dog staying in position. Once your
dog will stay in place for 1 minute while you go across the room, sit and return,
switch to intermittent rewards. Patting and praise is given every time, but
food is only given every 2nd, 3rd or 4th time. However for each new step in
training, use the food reward the first time or two. If you have trouble proceeding
to this step, change to a lead and head collar to ensure success.
The balance of the training should proceed in the dog's quiet or resting area,
using as many cues as possible to help relax the dog. Mimic the secure environment
that the dog feels when the owner is at home. Leave the TV on. Play a favorite
video or CD. Leave a favorite blanket or chew toy in the area. These all help
to calm the dog. You are teaching the dog to stay in its bed or confinement
area for progressively longer periods of time before you return and give the
reward. Initially train the dog to stay for 1 minute while you cross the room,
return and give either the food or praise and affection. Increase this up to
30 minutes. From this point on, your dog should be encouraged to stay in its
bed or cage for extended periods of time rather than sitting at your feet or
on your lap.
Next, you begin to leave the room. Hold up your hand as prompt, give the "down-stay"
command, walk across the room, and go out of sight for a short time before returning
to give the reward. Gradually make departures longer until the dog will tolerate
leaving for up to 30 minutes.
Finally, practice short "mock" departures. During "mock" or graduated departure
training, the dog should be exercised, given a short formal training session,
and taken to its bed or mat to relax. Give the "down-stay" command, a few toys
and treats and leave. The first few "mock" departures should be just long enough
to leave and return without any signs of anxiety or destructiveness. This might
last from a few seconds to a couple of minutes. Gradually but randomly increase
the time (e.g. 30 seconds, 1 minute, 2 minutes, 1, 2, 3, 2, 5, 7, 4, 7, 10,
etc.). As the time of departures approaches 10 or 15 minutes, begin to include
other activities associated with departure such as opening and closing the car
door and returning, turning on and off the car engine and returning or pulling
the car out of the driveway and returning.
What is very important is to progress slowly through the series of departures.
If when you return, the dog is anxious or extremely excited, then the departure
was too long and the next one should be shorter. This is an effective technique,
but very slow in the beginning.
Is the behavior therapy easy?
Although some of the steps needed to help your dog to cope with being alone
may seem simple it can be very difficult to implement this treatment and you
need to be prepared for a high level of commitment to treatment. Detaching yourself
from an over dependent pet and encouraging it to stand on its own four paws
is not easy for your pet or indeed for you but such treatment can be very successful
and is worth the time.
Is drug therapy useful?
Drug therapy can be useful especially during initial departure training and
there are now drugs licensed for the treatment of this problem in dogs. Often
the most suitable drugs for long term use are antidepressants, anti-anxiety
drugs or a combination. Tranquilizers alone do not reduce the pet's anxiety
and may only be helpful to sedate your dog so that it is less likely to investigate
and destroy. Drugs alone will do little or nothing to improve separation anxiety.
It is the retraining program that is needed to help your dog gain some independence
and accept some time away from you and the drug therapy assists by increasing
the speed of response to the training program
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